When almost all feminine hobbies are deemed dumb or as a waste of time, it’s not surprising that women shy away from being “feminine” during some point in their life. This is specially observable at the peak of their “girliness” that they’re completely confused by and try to repress as much as possible to be “cool” or fit in with the boys. Really sad state of affairs.
When we try and box people up this is bound to happen.